One of the basic premises of Brene’Brown’s research on vulnerability is that all humans have a need for connection and belonging. She states that her research has shown that the more people feel a sense of these things, the more apt they are to be able to weather the update and downs of life that someone without them may not be able to as well.
Coming from a background where I grew up feeling unlovable and poisonous to those around me, accepting love from others is a very vulnerable feeling experience. This Summer has been a learning experience in vulnerability and the art of allowing love into my life.
It feels new and scary. Sometimes I feel as though I am still waiting for the bottom to fall out. It comes with my baggage from my PTSD and sometimes it feels like I don’t know what will trigger a past memory or feeling but I know I am staying in the present moment and not checking out and escaping onto my head now like I used to.
I used to believe that a whole list of things made me unlovable. I have been using CBT skills to challenge my faulty thinking and create new core beliefs. It’s hard work but I have faith that God will use it for good and challenge me to grow.
W.L.
Thank you. I appreciate your comments. Look forward to your return.
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Way to go, keep pressing forward. I am praying for your healing to be accelerated through the savior.
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Thank you for your words of encouragement and prayers. Wendy
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Hi there! I was just reading about the latest book by Brene Brown. I agree, vulnerability is tough; however, it seems to offer a lot of benefits as well. Take care
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While it has been a process for me, the benefits definitely outweigh the alternatives. Peace and love to you. Wendy
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